Soul mate is someone with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, Love , intimacy and compatibility.
One theory of soulmates, presented by ancient Greek philosopher Plato's Symposium, is that humans originally consisted of four arms, four legs, and a single head made of two faces, but Zeus feared their power and split them all in half, condemning them to spend their lives searching for the other half to complete them. Over countless reincarnations, each half seeks the other. When all karmic debt is purged, the two will fuse back together and return to the ultimate.
when we feel safe enough to open our selves, our truest self steps out and we can be completely and honestly who we are. a soul mate is someone who loves us for who we are and for who we are pretending to be, our soul mate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. "our soul mate is the one who makes life come to life".
But now the question is, in this day and age are we able to spend enough time to search for our soulmate? or do u think that we are destined to find our soul mates with out any effort on our parts ? and the most important question is how are we going to recognize our Soul mate when we come across them ?
Many people probably already are with their soulmates and simply don't realise it. The danger in believing in the concept of soul mates is taking your relationship for granted. if you think that everything in your relationship should immediately click, and that there won't be any problems, you are setting yourself up for a dose of heavy disillusionment. If you think that marrying your soul mate will mean a life free from hard times and conflict, you are not facing reality.
If you really want to find your soul mate then you shouldn't take your relationship for granted, you need to find a person who you are compatible with and for this to happen you have to find yourself first coz "You can't find your soul mate if you haven't found yourself".
One theory of soulmates, presented by ancient Greek philosopher Plato's Symposium, is that humans originally consisted of four arms, four legs, and a single head made of two faces, but Zeus feared their power and split them all in half, condemning them to spend their lives searching for the other half to complete them. Over countless reincarnations, each half seeks the other. When all karmic debt is purged, the two will fuse back together and return to the ultimate.
when we feel safe enough to open our selves, our truest self steps out and we can be completely and honestly who we are. a soul mate is someone who loves us for who we are and for who we are pretending to be, our soul mate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. "our soul mate is the one who makes life come to life".
But now the question is, in this day and age are we able to spend enough time to search for our soulmate? or do u think that we are destined to find our soul mates with out any effort on our parts ? and the most important question is how are we going to recognize our Soul mate when we come across them ?
Many people probably already are with their soulmates and simply don't realise it. The danger in believing in the concept of soul mates is taking your relationship for granted. if you think that everything in your relationship should immediately click, and that there won't be any problems, you are setting yourself up for a dose of heavy disillusionment. If you think that marrying your soul mate will mean a life free from hard times and conflict, you are not facing reality.
If you really want to find your soul mate then you shouldn't take your relationship for granted, you need to find a person who you are compatible with and for this to happen you have to find yourself first coz "You can't find your soul mate if you haven't found yourself".
Thats a nice greek story buddy...
ReplyDeleteand strongly believe that your soulmate will not want to change you, he will definitely take you the way you are...
"wants you to be yourself, without the insistance that you satisfy him" and i believe its destiny that will show its path to them...
Good one.. your blog always shoots few intresting questions on personal life..
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion soulmate.. all these terms are created to sell thier extra ordinary love stories like romeo juliet... But if you look into common man lifes.. every ordinary man's(or woman) life has an extra ordinary love story to tell. It just got burried under responsibilities. Next regarding finding a so called a soul mate. You dont find a soul mate. You find a man or woman close to your toughts and start living with him/her. If you both agree on 50% of the things unanimosuly, another 25% with little argument and another 10% with fight and 10% you compeltely disagree. The last 5% u will only know when one is not in this world. If your statistics are close to what i said Then that means you have lived your life with your soul mate. There are some exceptions. If you kind of person who can love with out expecting anything in return then to you any man or woman can become your soul mate. please post a reply to my comment on what you think.
Its been a month i am still waiting for a reply.
ReplyDeletesorry for the late reply........i completely agree with u, nobody can find a person who is a 100% match to themselves so i do agree with the statistics you have mentioned and i dont believe there is any selfless love existing in this world so i dont think any person can become our soulmate as i ahve already mentioned a soulmate is some one who makes life come to life and that can't be done by any person only a special someone can do that for u. i hope that u do find ur special someone soon.
ReplyDeletethank you very much for the reply.. I did not know that its your blog. other day i was talking to souj she told me that its you. keep posting i am waiting for next post.
ReplyDeletea soulmate doesn't come that easy,but when he/she comes along u feel ilove in the air.
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